Worry about a Generation
I am a little bit worry, about many young people or middle age . What is really the purpose of life? It should be …to be happy and fulfilled. But how can you be happy and fulfilled when society ask more and more from regular people. Been normal, or been average these days it is not enough….. In ’70 the job tasks were not that demanding like these days.
In ’70 it was more simple. those days everybody has to know a lot of languages, has to be highly educated, has to be ambitious, good looking, successful. Otherwise in eyes of our society you are a loser.I think it’s exhausting. The demands are high, the expectation are high since you are a kid in school. More and more everyday, for regular people to there jobs , for sports, artists, musician and so on, more world record , more performance…more limited of the body overtake. When it will stop?
It is never enough, they want more from you, more beauty, more performance, more passion, more ambition, more skills, more patient, more work, more devotion, more and more.. I understand that a society has to progress…. and you have to push yourself for that, but what if we over exaggerate?
We force our body like lunitcs and than later be wake up woth i dont know what disease , or deficiency or sindrom. We will have later a generation of people with psychological problems…depression, because they feel unhappy, unadopted, not successful. Many of them with suicide thoughts, or as we hear more and more around us with burn out from to much work, with divorces because are too much responsibilities and we blame the family in the end, we are already trapped we dont want more.
What is even worse is that we hear in media all the time Be real, be truth! Be as you are, be natural, be honest with yourself , etc…But what really we see in media? people who struggle more and more with diets, physical exhaustion, rehab, burnout, depression, narcissism. This is the reality.
Public figures, Vip try to teach us that we have to be relaxed, they make campaign (only one time of course) and appear in a magazine without makeup, saying being natural is good, but what they do the rest of the days…. have 20 stylist and people around them to make them more and more beautiful., to sell more…This is what they sell for us…this is their message, push yourself until you drop dead, false images in movies and magazines with photoshop pictures, or pictures maked from the best angle ever…. Normal people don’t look like that…So what they teach us…to dont like ourself…we think we are not good enough…beacuse we didnt maked 2000 pictures and choose one and than look to the picture…We are a society of lies and deception, and we fool ourselves.
We think we are not smart enough, not beautiful enough, not happy enough…Man judge women more or less after what they see in media… skinny , beautiful face, nice dressed, nice skin, big breasts, small waist, long legs.What a woman want from a man? athletic, funny, successful, money, with connections, tall, not bold, helpful, romantic who spoil you all the time and spend a lot of money on you. But let be honest not everybody it’s like that.
Nowadays the look it’s everything, the money is everything…what a society!