Relationship Status: It’s Complicated
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Sunday at noon, right from the morning coffee and afternoon, found on Facebook with a title that many of the girls I know have in their status laltely “It’s Complicated”.
It’s like i see myself with my friends one evening, splitting subject and hearty laugh. What do you meen to woo you? To take out for a cake, a coffee or a juice? I still remember that regular independence (or some nongentlemen)i found that there are guys who pay all meals.
I have 24 years and I was surprised that almost any boy that I knew not pay my coffee with a gesture so natural. He was really surprised when I said I want to pay the note. I had not seen such a specimen he had never seen such a specimen. Ididn’t heard of a girl courted by not remember when. No mention serenade or letters of love, but a simple and sincere invitation to a restaurant or a cafe. The classic “Hello! Do you have plans tomorrow? I was thinking to go in place of X “is gone even in movies. Now you interested in writing short message on WhatsApp, Viber, or worse, the wall.
It is true that we do not have time, patience or just simply it seems that all expected with such an interest in high school is now childish and does not mean anything other than a waste of time. The New York Times addressing the concept of hookup culture, which we have translated into “connected”. No meeting, no relationship, hooked. Certainly each of us in college at least once hooked and decoupling occurred relaxed, hassle free.
What do you do,when you are 20 +and do not understand what is his status? It is in a couple or not? You make a couple with her or not? It’s a real relationship or good oldfashioned sex? How do you know if one or the other? Not mention how much trouble it gives you buying a birthday gift or Christmas or not!
A friend wants to buy a gift to a boy, who was “coupeld”, but did not want to give him hope, and the gift must be neutral. Because he’s in love and she is not. A friend asked me for advice on a gift for his girlfriend and when I said it’s a designer ring, proud indicated that he has nothing to do with “that ring,” said worshiper “I could have guessed that cannot ask her to be my wife with skull ring. “
I can only wonder how come people of 21 century to get married or have children … But everybody can choose whatever they want to their Relationship Status as they feel good.
You are right!
Hey…great post! I am in the same situation